Friday, 21 June 2013

Jose and Ledyann's Love Story


“We wanted a traditional Venezuelan wedding and tried to include our culture into the celebration.”


When Jose and Ledyann got married, I was lucky enough to be maid of honour and share such a happy time in their story together. As a couple, these two go from strength to strength, they are both individually unique and different but at the same time they share a lot of qualities, particularly in their professional lives. These young entrepreneurs work together in a company they created and spend virtually 24 hours a day together, something that can put any relationship to the test, but with mutual respect, and a few holidays each year to spend quality time together, they make it work.


They met in November 2005 at the Engineering Faculty of LUZ University in Maracaibo, Venezuela, and although they had a lot of mutual friends, they had never crossed paths before then. “When we first met he was very upfront, he sat next to me and told his friend we made a cute couple”, Ledyann recounts as she giggles at the memory, “I was always at the student centre, I’d never seen him there and suddenly he started showing up every day, that’s how we began dating”.


Fast forward five years, on 20th November 2009, they married during a beautiful and moving ceremony at the lovely San Ramon Nonato church in Maracaibo. The ceremony was followed by a reception at ‘El Guacamayo’ party hall, which was organized by Marlene de Andrade and decorated by well-known designer Hector Silva Vega. Although they didn’t have a specific theme, they managed to plan a wedding that reflected their mutual tastes and culture.


As a guest, one of my personal highlights of the evening was the ‘Crazy Hour’, this is a Hispanic tradition where for 60 minutes all the people invited get to wear novelty accessories like silly hats and oversized sunglasses and jump around to energetic and joyful party themed songs, the bride and groom had custom made head pieces that were very traditional and representative of their culture, it was fantastic.


ASK THE BRIDE


Where did you find the dress?
I tried on lots of dresses but ultimately decided to have my bridal gown custom made by Venezuelan fashion designer Algimiro Palencia.


What was the most special part of your day?
When the priest blessed our union and we exchanged rings. Also when we gave each other the silver coins called arras, the whole service was very emotional.


Best part of the evening?
The funniest part of the party was when Jose took the garter off my leg, he used his teeth and did a sexy little dance while he was doing it, everyone was laughing!


Favorite part of the whole experience?
Planning almost everything myself, I was very involved in the process and I loved the results.


Worst Bridezilla moment during planning?
When my bridesmaids started to complain about dress colours and aisle partners, I ended up with 4 bridesmaids instead of 8.


Were there any wedding day disasters?
The car rental company cancelled our booking without telling us so we had to find a last minute car where my dress could fit. I also forgot the arras at my mom’s house and had to get the driver to detour so we could pick them up, so I was late arriving at the church but so was the priest so that was ok!


Best souvenir or keepsake?
The arras, they are vintage silver coins that are exchanged by the couple to symbolize that you will share with the other everything you have. My aunt Lisida kept them for many years waiting for my wedding day to arrive. My aunt Zully also gave me a silver coin that was given to her on her wedding day as a sign of prosperity.


“We were really relaxed and happy on the day, we put a lot of planning into it beforehand so we just enjoyed it.”




























Tuesday, 11 June 2013

First Dance as Mr & Mrs



Music is such a powerful way of communicating, universal yet unique, millions of people can relate to one song and it moves each of them in a different way.

One of the most moving moments in a wedding is the Bride and Groom’s first dance, a few minutes in which all your guests look on, love filling their hearts as you take to the stage and dance to your song.

I will never forget our first dance, the song we chose will forever take me back to that precious moment. It was not an easy choice, I’m a Backstreet Boys fan and hubby enjoys the likes of Rage Against The Machine, which doesn’t exactly make it easy to find middle ground, but we found our medium with Christina Perri.

The song ‘A Thousand Years’ has been one of my favourites since I heard it on the Twilight soundtrack, and no, that’s not why we chose it, in fact it was almost missed out because of that (I may be a fan of the franchise, but hubby is NOT). I compiled a playlist of all the songs I thought could tell our story of love, and together we sat down and listened to each one, eliminating a few and leaving a handful to pick from, we decided to revisit the idea later.

It felt like the universe was telling me THAT was our song, every time I turned on the radio there it was, if I was watching the video channel it would come up, and even on my iPod as I walked to work, from thousands of choices the shuffle would play that one. One day, we were in the car on our way home and Christina Perri came on the radio, I looked over at my fiancé in his black Solid Rock Café t-shirt and untamed beard, singing along at the top of his lungs to A Thousand Years, and that was it, this was our song.

Here are a few other songs with great first dance potential:

As far as first dances go this is a very popular choice and it’s easy to see why, the lyrics are just so beautiful, an homage from a man in love, professing all the reasons why she takes his breath away.

If you’re a country fan there is no doubt you have heard, and love this song. We all have regrets in our love life, but the truth is that all our experiences, even the wrong ones, played their part in leading us where we are today… with our true love.

The vows you make on your wedding day are a promise, to love and respect one another for the rest of your lives, and this is what this song is about, a promise that no matter what happens, they will love each other until forever.

This is another homage to the wedding vows, a beautiful country ballad that talks about the good times, the bad and the fact that they will face them and overcome them together. The fact they were recorded by a husband and wife just makes me love it more. 


I have listened to this song endless times, everybody wants a love story worthy of Romeo and Juliet, and this song talks about the struggles of a couple that may not have a fairy tale start but ultimately finds their way to each other. A little more energetic than your average first dance but if it works for you, then why not?


This song is just so true, most men find it so difficult to talk about feelings, but with this song a man can acknowledge how much his partner has changed his life and how much she means to him, a real tribute to that great woman that is always standing behind a great man.

Best wishes, Gaby xXx